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The best Christmas gift that you can give your children is the gift of "loving yourself".

2020 was a year that allowed humanity to witness the entire spectrum of emotions and perspectives.

From absolute despair to absolute bliss.

From absolute hopelessness to absolute liberation. 

From absolute disgust to absolute gratitude.

From absolute shame to absolute compassion.

This is humanity.... and this humanity lives in all of us.

I believe the journey of "loving thyself" is a gift that keeps ...

How's your connection with your child? Do you wish it was better?

Do you think; "If I had a better connection with them, maybe they'll listen more?"

Is there a quiet shame you hold within you when it comes to parenting?... It's as though you want to give the best of you to the ones you love, and yet you're not your best self when it comes to parenting.... and it's really hard especially when you feel unheard?

You want to be able to love your children with all your heart… because you know how ...

How well do you love yourself through Fear?

That's the healing.

Because if you don't know how to do it, your children won't either.

I've had calls with Mothers and Fathers in the last few weeks for my Mastermind... and "Loving thyself" is a foreign concept.

They are successful. They have thriving businesses. They are at the top of their game... They knew themselves as high-achievers - just not in the area of Parenting.

...and this is the struggle; "It's hard to love my children fully... eve...

"I feel so lonely as a parent. I feel my teenage daughters 'hate' me. They don't take my advice, they can't connect to me, and it's tough and lonely. I wish I could turn back time so that I invested in the connection when they were younger."

A client in my Mastermind shares her heartbreak. It's so common. 

The cracks of connection between our children and us show in the teenage years.  

There is a complacency that's common amongst parents.

We take for granted that our child has entrusted us wi...

"Why is conscious parenting so hard?"

"How do I make my child understand x, y, z?"

"How can I have my partner be on board with conscious parenting?"

"This is all too much - I want to be a better parent, and maybe it's me - however, I think it's my children as much as me, and we don't have help.. and I'm so scared of screwing them up!"

"I know they are my wounds - and I want to heal them. It just seems impossible."

There is so much to unpack with the above - and the above are common statemen...

Have you ever had that friend that kept complaining about the same thing over and over again? Or finding themselves amid drama consistently?... and they can't see it? They know something needs to change; however, they don't know what or how.

They are unhappy - on some level they are bored with their story, and yet it keeps going on repeat?

... or this person may even be you?

That's what addiction looks like.

When we're an addict, we don't want to face it - and we don't even know we're an addict....