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Growing up, I never wanted to be my mother - and I did not want to marry someone like my father.

My parents had their issues, and while I had compassion for their journeys - in my mind, I kept thinking, "No way would I be my mother or put up being in a relationship with someone that would treat me the same way my father treated my mother."

Consciously we know what isn't good for us and are aware of what we "do or don't want" according to our upbringing.

However, the subconsci...

Growing up, I never wanted to be my mother - and I did not want to marry someone like my father.

My parents had their issues, and while I had compassion for their journeys - in my mind, I kept thinking, "No way would I be my mother or put up being in a relationship with someone that would treat me the same way my father treated my mother."

Consciously we know what isn't good for us and are aware of what we "do or don't want" according to our upbringing.

However, the subconscious mind ALWAYS wins. A...

Following on from last week, I want to share about Intuition, Parenting, and the Pandemic. 

Intuition plays a big part in knowing that we are living from a place of Love.

Intuition is all about making choices that align with our Highest Self.

However - most of us have Intuition as a concept, an idea, a feeling - and it's not a one size fits all.

The outcome is always the same "To trust thyself" - the process of doing this is unique to every person.

How I access intuition is going to be diff...

There is 1 question that will reveal your patterns.

It is the reason why you don't feel safe in relationships or feel safe to be loved or feel safe to be abundant.

It is the reason why you have "imposter syndrome" and feeling like a fraud.

It is the reason why you can't ask for what you need, don't know how to navigate conflict, and numb yourself - or push people away when you need them.

It will show you why you can't feel joy, feel at peace, feel calm - especially when everything is amazing, and yo...

I'm 16 years old.

It's a regular scene in our home. My brother (13 years old) and I are sitting at the top of the stairs listening in on our parents arguing.

My parents are screaming and yelling at each other.

However, on this particular day, it's escalating.

"WHY DON'T YOU LOVE ME?!" Yells my mum through her tears at my dad.

In her hand is a knife. She has put it to her neck.

"I'm going to kill myself if you don't love me!". She exclaims.

My dad is shaking his head. "YOU'RE CRAZY!!!" He screams back...

Last week I shared about "Choosing Love".

This week, I want to share the other side of the story.

It proved to be a balm to many adult children who grew up feeling unseen, unheard, and misunderstood. If you missed it, you can read it here.

For the parents of adult children where the relationship is testing, my previous post would have cut really deep.

It may have triggered old wounds, made your blood boil... and conjured up a depth of pain.

This post is for the parents...I know you tried your best....