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Do you find you're always finding fault?

Either with others or yourself?

You could do something better... or you should have done it differently... it's just never "good enough".

And then that turns to - how someone else could do something better, or differently, or your expectations of them?

It's humbling when we realise we are addicted to finding fault. In ourselves and others.

Or that it's a pattern of "not good enough" that's really running the show. 

I remember a time when I looked in the mirror,...

Teenagers are so misunderstood... (then again - most children are, no matter their age).  

When  you're under 3, you always communicated freely. Your joy, your sadness, your anger, your frustration.  

However, for most parents, when their child communicated sadness, anger or frustration - they didn't know how to meet it (because they haven't met theirs).  

And so the child learns that this "form" of communication is NOT ok with the parent.  

From ages 3 - 14... they are learning to suppress ...

We can't approach parenting as we do in a romantic relationship or friendship.

Parenting is a very unique relationship - where as a parent, you are 100% responsible for the disconnect up until they are at least 21.

If you're 100% responsible for the disconnect, you're also 100% responsible for the connection... and you're 100% responsible for the space you hold.

If you want mental, emotional and Spiritual mastery - it's right there in your parenting.

When I say we are 100% responsible as ...

"Shouldn't we have things figured out by now?! We're in our 40s... why do I still feel this way...?! I thought by now I would be more confident and feel at ease..."

Shared one of my closest friends. Highly successful. Top of her field. She manages a Global Team around the world. She works directly with the CEO of one of the top Investment firms in the world. 

"I still feel the same as I was in my 20s and feel like I need to prove myself!.... How did you stop caring about what people think?" she as...