The Blog

I don't want to be left behind... Nov 13, 2023

We're in the car, and Brooklyn says...

"Mamma - I've been feeling really sad lately... "

"What's been sad for you?"

"Avery.... Do you think I'll get bigger than him one day?"

"....Hhhmm I'm curious - is that because you think you're small....?"

"Yeah... I hate being small...."

"What do you make it mean about being small?"

"When you're small, you get left behind..."

"And what do you make it mean that you get left behind?"

"That nobody loves you..."

"So you think if you're just as big as Avery or bigger, he...

The resistance and the wall Nov 03, 2023

When you see, know, and understand resistance for what it really is, you'll also accept that it's part of the journey of transformation.

Resistance is what the Mind/ Body does; and how the Mind/ Body behaves when we are shifting and transforming.

It starts in the Heart (Spirit).... and then you'll need to learn how to guide the Mind/ Body follow.

If you want to know what that feels like.... It's like when you tell your kids it's time to leave.... and they don't hear you, they are whining, t...

What comes up when I ask this question... Nov 01, 2023

Do you allow people to look after you?
When was the last time someone looked after you?

... What comes up?

Does it bring up loneliness or the experience of feeling unheard?
Or does it bring up a follow-up question of, "Who is there to ask?"

It is nearly impossible to have a thriving family when you don't feel safe to be looked after, and you don't feel deserving of support and care.

If you're like most parents, you feel lonely, and you feel unheard - especially in your relationship and as a couple...

Nature or Nurture? Oct 26, 2023

Is it nature? Or is it nurtured?

A friend asked me this question when I first had Avery.

When I was doing my Leadership training, we learnt about "ways of being" - and we learn that there are INFINITE ways of being.

I remember an exercise where I had to express anger. Something I really found hard to express. And there was another exercise where I had to be aggressive. I had to learn all the ways of being that I judged.

It was one of the most liberating experiences and what I got from this

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How can you help me? Oct 24, 2023

"Yummii, I resonate with what you share and write - So how can you help me?"

I get asked this question a lot, so I thought I'd take the opportunity to clarify what I do and how I can potentially support you.

Do any of the following resonate:

Are you wanting more connection in your relationships - specifically your children, partner/ spouse? Or do you find that everything is "ok" and it's lack lustre - because you know there is more?

Have you done everything in your power to not be like your mother ...

From Healing to Higher Self to being the Healer Oct 23, 2023

At the heart of my work with clients, is the power of liberation.

From Healing, to Higher Self, to being the Healer - how does it all work and what does this have to do with our Heart.

Leading from our Heart, and living from our Heart is how we heal.

Expressing our visions, words, and living as Love that is in our Heart is our most true, authentic self. I call this, our Highest expression. The Higher Self, the highest of consciousness within us.

And as the embodiment of our Highest Consciousness, w...