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Does your little one say this: "I can't mamma... I can't...."? Jun 22, 2022

"I can't mamma... I can't...." Brooklyn is getting upset.

His 2.5 year old legs didn't want to walk.

We had just finished our grocery shopping and the boys really wanted to go to Kmart which was on the other end of the shopping centre.

"I can't mamma... I can't....Carry me!!!"

I go down, and we're eye level... He is having a really hard time...

He just wants to be carried. I hold his hand, and stroke his face..

"Where are you wanting to go?" I ask...

"Kmart" he answered...

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I can make great choices... Jun 18, 2022

"Just be grateful you were born....You're lucky to be here"

I would often hear as I was growing up.

I was the "other woman's" daughter and for the longest time, that story would define me. I was lucky that I wasn't aborted.

The way in which I chose to enter this world had me create this belief "I am a mistake". I didn't trust that I was enough... I didn't trust that I deserved to be alive.

It was the place in which I showed up everywhere. And this is how it would show up.

I was constantly

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How important is trust in a relationship? Jun 17, 2022

I know what it's like when you're in a relationship and you don't feel like they've got your back - and you're walking on eggshells or on edge; hyper-vigilant that something is going to go wrong or you're just always on auto-pilot needing to be in control of everyone and everything.

It's exhausting. It's painful. You can't relax in Life.

It's so unconscious - you don't trust them or the relationship or Trust that you've made the right choice.

It's the worst experience of lonel

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Do you find it hard to trust? Jun 15, 2022

I had a deep loathing for being female. I wanted to be a boy.

I would feel SO proud when someone called me a Tom Boy.

I wanted to be strong and powerful and I associated this with only being available to you if you're a boy.

I had this "belief" system centred around boys don't get hurt, life is much safer if you don't have emotions, and boys get what they want in life.

And, if you're a girl, you're weak. You will be taken advantage of. Girls are manipulative and conniving, and yo...

The Higher Self... Jun 08, 2022

"I'm always with you - I've always been here."

That's what my Higher-Self shared.

It was only a few years ago that I thought I could only access my Higher-Self based on those that had the "gift" to channel or pass on messages.

I thought the Higher Self was something I could only connect to in meditation.

I thought my Higher-Self was outside of me.. and even if I read about it, and "consciously" knew that there was a "Higher-Self" - it was just that - an idea.

I hear it all the time;

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The hard things about hard things.. Jun 07, 2022

The hard thing about parenting isn't patience... the hard thing is believing that patience is the choice to make, and it feels safe to be patient.

The hard thing about parenting isn't needing to be everything to everyone and doing it all - the hard thing is letting go of that and realising how unhealthy and dysfunctional it is to continue to play it out.

The hard thing about parenting isn't learning how to control our children or make them listen - it's about letting go of the attachme

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