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Guilt. It's a big one in parenting.

Guilt is interesting... It's interesting because it isn't something that is "questioned," and is "accepted" as the "truth". 

Guilt, once it's accepted, discolours our experience of life, cripples our heart to fully receiving, and creates disconnection within.

I'm going to invite you in on this idea. 

What if you didn't have to be hijacked by guilt?...

And...here's an even bigger idea. What if it didn't need to be a predominant experience of life as a pare...

Do you remember that feeling? Feeling invisible as a child? ...and thinking you're the only one that feels invisible?

That somehow your best friend, or your brother, or sister, or your mum, or dad don't know what you're going through? That surely no-one else can understand this feeling of being unseen?

The irony is that most children walk around fearing the fear of feeling invisible... and also feeling invisible.

You were not alone.

"Feeling invisible" is one of the greatest fears for childr...

As a parent, we have a desire to have our children thrive. 

We have a desire that they are "true" to their soul. We have a desire that their internal compass is their north star. 

The pathway for their soul to be unleashed is highly influenced by who we are for ourselves.

Whilst we may not have control over how they navigate life or what they choose - we can't deny that we are a pivotal influence on the stories and the beliefs they inherit.

.... This is a long read.. and it is a very persona...

A few days ago, I shared an email about loving and celebrating on yourself. 

Most of the emails that come from me are about having a better relationship with ourself as the access to have Parenting be more fulfilling. 

....I know this can be hard.

I've been there...and for many, many, many years, I hated who I was. I hated being in my skin. Nothing ever felt good enough....and it was lonely.

Why I do, what I do... is because of this...

My first thoughts of suicide and feeling "different" came at ...

For the rest of our lives, New Years Day has a brand new meaning.

Our second child, Brooklyn, celebrates his b'day on the 1st of January. On 1.1.2021, he turned 1. 

I love that for the rest of his life, it's one big celebration around the world. That's pretty magical.

Imagine the theme of your b'day being a celebration, new beginnings, and new possibilities! :)

To celebrate, I bought 3 cupcakes;
- One for Brooklyn to celebrate his first revolution around the Sun!
- One for Avery to celebrate h...

Reflection is a powerful tool. When we reflect, we bring greater awareness to our actions, our words and our thoughts. 

During this time, we tend to reflect on the year that has passed. 

There is one question that guides my reflection and learnings for the year.

"How did I Love?"

Did I love with all my heart? Or, did I allow my heart to harden?

Did I love who I was through challenging moments? Or, did I meet my fears, pain, and hurts with judgement, shame, and guilt?

How kind was I to me in th...